A New Standard for Leadership: Barr. Aber Serumun Deborah’s Challenge to Women
By Terver Agabih skyhouselimited@gmail.com
When Barr. Aber Serumun Deborah was appointed the first-ever female Secretary to the Benue State Government (SSG), it wasn’t just a historic moment for the state—it was a challenge to women in leadership everywhere. Her tenure has proven that leadership isn’t just about holding power, but about wielding it with competence, grace, and an unwavering commitment to principles. In her time in office, Barr. Aber has shown a clear and consistent dedication to her duties, all while bringing a calm, collected, and genuinely kind nature to every state function, setting a new standard for women who aspire to lead.
A Professional Challenge to the Status Quo
A seasoned solicitor and arbitrator, Barr. Aber brings a deep-seated belief in fairness and the rule of law to her role as SSG. Her legal acumen shone during her intervention in the Mbaivur Development Association’s leadership dispute. Rather than taking sides, her approach was to foster peace and mediate a solution. She insisted on a gathering of all stakeholders to urge “adherence to due process and constitutionality,” a choice that speaks to her wise and principled nature. This focus on a functional and just system, rather than political favoritism, is a hallmark of her leadership and a powerful challenge to the notion that women leaders must be aggressive to be effective.
A Personal Challenge to Be Authentic
Barr. Aber’s capacity for connection and kindness is a truly inspiring part of her story. Her “twin sister’s” touching birthday message described her as a “beautiful, wise, kind soul” and her “twin, friend, confidante, and battle fighter.” This profound tribute from her closest family member offers a glimpse into her unwavering support system and the strong character that informs her public life.
This ability to form deep bonds is also evident in stories of her friendships. One colleague recalls how an initially hostile encounter in her family home blossomed into a lifelong friendship. Such stories show a woman with a genuine and open heart, whose warmth and kindness shine through and turn initial obstacles into enduring connections. Her capacity for friendship and her lovely personality are a direct challenge to the stereotype that female leaders must be detached or unapproachable.
Championing the Next Generation of Leaders
Beyond her professional and personal virtues, Barr. Aber is a passionate advocate for the next generation and for women. She recently hosted National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) members who were recognized for their outstanding service, offering them encouragement and advice. This action highlights her commitment to celebrating and empowering the state’s youth.
As the first woman to hold her office, her endorsement of the Nigeria League of Women Voters (NILOWV) is especially significant. She understands the importance of female representation and has pledged to support women’s inclusion in politics and leadership. Her actions send a powerful message to young girls and women in Benue State: with a steadfast dedication to professional ethics, a clear focus on community welfare, and a kind heart, there is no limit to what you can achieve.
Impact at the Grassroots
Barr. Aber’s commitment extends to the grassroots level, focusing on tangible improvements for local communities. Her visit to the newly commissioned Dangbo Primary Health Care Centre, followed by a promise to work with the administration to address the community’s plea for better roads, exemplifies her hands-on approach. She serves as a crucial link between government policy and the everyday needs of the people.
In her first year, Barr. Aber Serumun Deborah has established herself not only as a deliberate and principled leader but as a truly lovely and inspiring person. Her tenure is shaping up to be defined by a steadfast dedication to her professional ethics, a clear focus on community welfare, and a kind-hearted vision that challenges and empowers the next generation of women leaders to follow in her footsteps.
